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My Name is Payal, I am from Delhi and I am married, I am a mother of two kids. My mother pierce my nose from left side when I was just 3 years old and she put a gold ring in my nose. 13 Yeas back when I got married, My Mother in law put a large size ( a bit bigger than a bangle ) ring into my nose, actually seven days before my wedding. Which I keep wearing for 16 Months continuously days and nights, until I birth a baby boy. After the birth of a boy they remove a ring from my nose and put a large size pin in my nose. The nose pin is really very heavy, even I can feel its wait during usual work & movement. When my son was 3 years old, I gave an another birth to a baby girl. My In Laws was not happy because of her birth and they again put a ring in my nose as a punishment but this time they pierce my septum and put a ring in it. The new septum ring is also quiet big & heavy, it covers my lips and I need to lift it up while eating and drinking water.
My Husband usually pull it to control me, specially at the time of sex. He also pull it when he wants a sex but not me. I am wearing it for last 10 Years. My son is now 13 Years of age and my Daughter is 10, she also wear a nose ring in her septum and a pin in her left nostril. Yes, but the good thing is her nose jewelry is not big and heavy. Some time her father also press her nose to punish her.
My husband also pierce my tongue and put a bar in it. He also attach a small thin chain with 3 Ghungroos ( Bells ) with it, Which actually hang out of my lips and made a sizzling sound when I speak. He also pull my tongue chain, when I argue.
My son learn all these things and believe that her would be wife will be her slave and her sister would be someone slave. He accept this reality that his mother is also a slave of his father and his grand parents. He will treat her wife in a same way.
Yes, women are still men slave and nose piercing is a sign of there slavery.
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